Optimistic people can forget everything after setbacks by taking a bath, eating, or sleeping. Pessimistic people, on the other hand, torment themselves by being unable to bathe, eat, or sleep after setbacks. Faced with the same storm, some people are propelled forward to grow, while others are trapped in place, unable to extricate themselves. The storm itself makes no difference; the difference lies in one’s mindset and perspective. Optimists heal themselves through everyday routines, while pessimists are consumed by trivial emotions. In a single thought, there is both heaven and hell; in the end, you must ferry yourself across life’s river. The resilience of life is never about avoiding the waves, but about breaking through and being reborn amidst the storm.