In the subconscious of many men, their future wife’s treatment within the family is actually modeled after their mother’s template. If a man’s mother had a difficult life, having witnessed her sacrifice, patience, and humility since childhood, he will subconsciously believe that women should behave this way in the family. When you raise a legitimate request, he not only cannot empathize but may even think you are being petty. Because in his eyes, a woman’s standard action is to burn herself to light up the whole family. Men whose mothers had a good life are often more likely to move on to the next stage; their family’s foundation is fluid. He has seen his father respect his mother, seen women being loved, seen, and emotionally supported within the family. He has grown up breathing this kind of atmosphere, so when he enters a close relationship, he naturally believes that making the woman around him live decently is a basic quality of a man. Have you observed men around you who are happily married? Are their mothers mostly women who are emotionally stable and well-loved?