Don't overthink it, and don't make excuses for those who hurt you. Malice is just malice; it has no reason. Don't try to escape it; patience and appeasement won't earn you kindness. Taking a step back might give you a broader view, but it also encourages the other party to push their limits. Keep the ability to fight back; your attitude can be gentle, but your bottom line must be firm. Not arguing over small things shows maturity, but daring to express your stance at critical moments is a matter of principle. The best self-protection isn't eliminating malice but making it impossible for it to get close. You need to maintain your rhythm and navigate the complex world with ease, staying true to yourself.