A person gets better and better, starting with changing their own magnetic field.

Cultural celebrity Ma Jiahui,

As a child, he was called “Shuai Zai” (Unlucky Boy).

He would embarrass himself in front of girls,

Never won at poker,

And often got injured for no apparent reason.

People around him laughed at his bad luck,

He also believed he was born unlucky,

Treading carefully in everything he did,

Even developing a severe fear of heights.

In countless dark days,

He found solace in reading,

Especially biographies of famous people.

The more he read,

He realized,

Even great figures are not immune to bad luck.

But they never give up on themselves,

Instead, with confidence and optimism,

They turn bad things into good.

He suddenly understood: luck can be changed,

What a person believes in,

Is what they will encounter.

Since then,

Whenever others called him “Shuai Zai,”

He would just smile it off.

He also boldly tried his hand at writing he loved,

Believing that sooner or later, good luck would favor him.

In his sophomore year,

He successfully published his first book.

Just after graduation,

He became a columnist for a well-known media outlet.

After gaining fame,

He transitioned into a TV host,

And his career went smoothly.

When talking about his transformation,

He said, "‘Shuai’ (unlucky) is a whirlpool,

A kind of force,

That pulls people in.

But if you shift your mindset,

Think positively about everything,

You can gradually pull yourself out of the swamp of life.

The book ‘Power’ also says:

"Everyone is surrounded by a magnetic field,

No matter where you are,

The magnetic field follows you,

And your magnetic field attracts people and things with the same energy."

A person’s luck, good or bad,

Is attracted by oneself.

When faced with setbacks, you become despondent,

When encountering obstacles, you stop moving forward,

Doomed to carry misfortune all your life.

Learn to view life positively,

Think good thoughts instead of bad,

And your destiny will head toward the good.

II

Nakamura Eiko, author of “Worth Living,”

Once held high expectations for marriage.

After marriage,

Her husband was unambitious,

Addicted to alcohol,

And indifferent to their children.

She was unwilling to accept this,

Always frowning and lamenting her miserable fate,

Complaining endlessly about her husband.

Over time,

The resentment she exuded

Made the atmosphere in the home oppressive.

Her husband grew more tired of returning home,

Spending his days indulging in pleasures,

And accumulating a mountain of debt.

To support the family,

She had to find a job.

The workplace was highly competitive,

She dared not slack off at work,

And continued studying after hours.

The busy life made her feel fulfilled,

And the substantial income made her happier.

Gradually,

Her complaints lessened,

And her smile increased.

Her positive change

Deeply influenced her disheartened husband,

Who began to reflect on himself,

And slowly changed his bad habits.

In the end,

She not only saved her marriage,

But also achieved a career.

There is a saying in “Heart”:

"All misfortunes in life,

Have no other cause,

Than the heart attracting them,

A heart that endlessly complains and grumbles,

Brings about misfortune."

Many people, when their careers are not smooth,

And they meet unkind people,

Love to blame heaven for unfairness.

But in reality,

Those annoying people and bad things,

Are summoned by your negative energy.

The human heart is no bigger than a fist,

Filled with sighs and complaints,

And cannot hold good luck and happiness.

Remove the weeds from your soul,

Cut off the transmission of negative energy,

Only then can your life turn from gloomy to sunny,

And see the bright sun again.

III

Laozi said,

The gentleman has the art of creating destiny,

Fate is established by oneself,

Happiness is sought by oneself.

There are no gates to disaster or blessing,

Only what people invite.

A person’s luck, good or bad,

Is decided by oneself.

Positive thoughts,

Can build a healthy magnetic field;

Negative emotions and words,

Will weaken and deteriorate your magnetic field.

Only by changing your own energy field,

Can you attract all that is good in life.

Reduce negative energy,

Increase empowerment.

Many people, when faced with life’s disappointments,

Can’t help but sigh and complain.

But once complaints leave the mouth,

They turn into terrible curses,

Turning life upside down.

Painter Takehisa Yumeji said: The complaints you constantly mouth,

Will become your life.

If you blame your partner for being useless,

Always find fault with him,

He is unlikely to achieve anything;

If you scold your children for being disobedient,

Compare them to others,

It will only make them more rebellious;

If you complain that your job has no future,

And feel wronged, giving up,

Your boss is even less likely to promote you.

Complaining and lamenting,

Will destroy the magnetic field around you,

Dragging you into an endless black hole.

Calm your mind,

Stay composed,

Infuse yourself with positive energy,

Only then can the gloom above your head slowly dissipate.

IV

Psychology has a concept called “Self-fulfilling prophecy.”

All human actions,

Are influenced by the subconscious.

Negative thoughts,

May cause everything to go wrong; positive thoughts,

Can make your path smooth.

When Li Kaifu first joined Microsoft,

He was especially afraid of saying the wrong thing,

And leaving a bad impression on the leaders.

Before reporting to CEO Bill Gates,

He was anxious all night and couldn’t sleep well.

To calm his nerves,

Li Kaifu repeatedly told himself, “I’m really great,” “I can do it.”

Positive psychological suggestions,

Gave him confidence.

On the day of his speech,

He found himself less nervous than expected,

Expressed his views fluently,

And gained Gates’s admiration and recognition.

People are easily hypnotized by their own words,

Whether criticism or praise,

Saying it often makes it true.

Learn to appreciate yourself,

Affirm yourself,

Create a positive magnetic field,

Only then can your life enter a virtuous cycle.

Less daydreaming,

More action.

There is a saying in “The Law of Attraction”: "What I think,

I can get."

Positive imagination,

Can adjust the magnetic environment to some extent,

But without action,

Even the strongest intention,

Is just a wishful thinking.

Japanese billionaire Masayoshi Son, since age 16,

Set his goal to become Japan’s number one entrepreneur.

He didn’t just sit at home dreaming,

But listed out what he wanted to do,

And then conducted market research one by one.

Finally, Masayoshi Son chose the computer industry,

Worked diligently for 40 years,

And finally achieved his dream.

Any perfect plan or goal,

Without action to support it,

Is ultimately futile.

Improve your initiative,

Build a bridge between thought and reality,

And everything you desire will come rushing in.

Less quarreling,

More gratitude.

Entrepreneur Inamori Kazuo,

Once asked a high monk about the path of life.

The monk told him,

To say “Nanman Nanman” more often,

Meaning “Thank you.”

He didn’t understand at the time,

But still obediently did so for many years.

And each “Thank you,”

Brought him good reputation,

And more benefactors.

He later reflected: People like me could never succeed,

But in the end, I did succeed,

All because of two words—Thank you.

A person who knows gratitude,

Will naturally accumulate good fortune.

Writer Rhonda Byrne pointed out: Gratitude is a person’s mental system,

That can stimulate infinite energy of the soul.

What you are grateful for,

Will be blessed with that energy.

Give love,

And you will receive more love;

Express gratitude,

And you will get more help in return.

Less quarreling,

More gratitude.

You will find that all warmth,

Will ultimately be returned to yourself.

Less toxic friends,

More helpful friends.

Eneuro magazine published a study showing: The human brain can not only sense magnetic fields,

But also respond to them.

In other words,

Your magnetic field,

Will influence and be influenced by the magnetic fields around you.

Who you are with,

Will shape who you become.

Writer Zhang Meng, to improve faster,

Came up with the “Seven People Method.”

That is, find seven experts in different fields,

Learn from their shining points.

Enter a positive energy magnetic field,

Which changed her way of thinking,

And cultivated many good habits.

She has been getting up early for years,

Publishing books,

Giving speeches,

Continuously expanding her influence.

Warren Buffett said: "It’s best to associate with people better than you,

So that you will unknowingly become better too."

Interpersonal relationships,

Are actually exchanges of energy.

Choose good company,

Pick the right circle,

And life has a better chance to improve.

V

The Huayan Sutra says: "Observe the nature of the Dharma realm,

All is created by the mind."

The good and bad of life’s circumstances,

Originate from your inner magnetic field.

The more positive your attitude,

The more abundant your inner energy,

The stronger the magnetic field around you.

It will secretly guide you,

Toward a broader future.